Think carefully about the following passage and the assignment below.
Mohandas Gandhi labeled close friendships as dangerous because“friends react on one another and sometimes loyalty to a friend willlead us into wrongdoing.”
George Orwell stated that “sometimes one is willing to commit sins for the sake of loyalty to others.”
What do you think—are close friendships dangerous because they maylead us to wrongdoing, or is it okay that we sometimes commit “sins”for the sake of loyalty to others?
Whichever way you decide to think about closeness and giving another being all your trust is a big part of your personality. Whether you decide to give someone all your trust and hope they don’t turn their back on you and betray you. Or maybe you feel that if they know nothing, they say nothing.
As Mohandas Gandhi says, maybe giving loyalty to a friend will leadus to bad things. The more a person knows you, the easier it is to deceive you. First of all, you already trust them and your heart will think of any excuse to prove to yourself your friend is not an enemy.
Your friend may have an alternative side that you have no idea about. He/she could be feeding your secrets to the “enemy.” Anybody canbe come your friend, but maybe they became your friend to tell someoneelse what happened to you to your “old” best friend—all those things you never wanted that person to know. Be careful of handing out your trust as if it were mere rocks; make the recipient earn it as if it were gold.
As for George Or well’s opinion that it is good to have loyalty, maybe this person will help you when you are having a hard time. Everyone loves to have a good friend—someone you can count on to laugh with, tell stories to, crack some jokes with. Not only is it nice to have such a person, but it is healthy. When you have a bad day and need to let off a little steam, it is great to do that with this person. If you allow too many things to build up inside and you are dying to tell someone it is not at all healthy. Maybe that includes being a bit of a“sin committer” as Orwell mentions, but these are friends that are invaluable. They can listen to you and give support when you need it. Through their help, you can decide just how you will face the world. You just have to be smart enough to know not to be pressured into doing things you should not do.